Unstuck Map

Situations, answered straight

Not advice, and not a lecture on budgeting. What the decision actually turns on, what the number really is, and what order things go in.

An inherited house and expensive debt at the same time

What should I do with an inherited house if I still have credit card debt?

Clear the expensive debt first, and do it the day the money lands. Credit card interest is usually the highest guaranteed cost you…

Working nights, and wondering whether selling would end it

Can I stop working nights if I sell my house?

Often yes, and by a bigger margin than people expect — because the number you have to replace is smaller than the one you earn. If…

A lump of money, a loan, and no obvious right answer

Should I pay off my truck or invest the money?

Compare the loan rate to what you could reliably earn, and remember the loan rate is guaranteed while the return is not. Paying of…

Money in, money out, nothing spare

I have nothing left at the end of the month. Where do I even start?

Start by writing down what actually has to go out each month, separately from what you choose to spend. Almost nobody has that num…

Starting late, with less time than the advice assumes

I am in my fifties with no retirement savings. Is it too late?

No, but the lever changes. With fewer years, what you spend matters more than what you earn — a cost removed permanently does more…

Equity on one side, expensive debt on the other

Should I sell my house to pay off debt?

Sometimes, and it depends on what is left afterwards rather than on whether the debt disappears. Selling clears the debt and also …

Stuck in work you want out of

I want to leave my job but cannot afford to. What actually has to change?

Usually one number, not your whole situation. Work out what must go out each month, then what the new thing would have to produce …

A one-off amount, and a lot of opinions about it

I am about to get a lump sum. What should I do with it first?

Do nothing with it for a few weeks, then clear the most expensive debt. Money that arrives all at once attracts decisions, and the…

Space you already have, and whether it changes anything

Is renting out a room actually worth it?

Often yes, and it is one of the few options that changes a monthly position without needing capital, a customer or a new skill. Th…

A job, and no fixed address

I am working but I have nowhere stable to live. How do I get out of this?

The wall is almost always the deposit, not the rent. Being without a stable address costs more per week than being housed — nightl…

No crisis, no direction, and everyone else seems further along

I am in my twenties and feel behind everyone. Am I?

Probably not, and the feeling usually comes from comparing against a highlight reel rather than a number. Work out what you actual…

Severance in hand, and no plan yet

I have just been laid off. What should I do first?

Work out how many months of must-pay you can cover, before deciding anything else. That number is your actual runway, and it turns…

One household became two, on the same income

We have separated and the money does not work any more. Where do I start?

Work out what one household costs you now, on your own, before agreeing anything. Two homes on one income is arithmetic that rarel…

Behind on rent, or the notice has arrived

I think I am about to lose my housing. What can I actually do?

Talk to the landlord before the arrears grow, and find out what the actual timeline is where you live — it is usually longer than …